How to Seduce Women:
Need to know how to seduce a woman? 4 ways to seduce women are the best seduction techniques for you to aquire. The first thing I realized is that most guys are actually very ethical about pursuing women. We’re not trying to harm or manipulate women, even when we’re talking about ‘seducing‘ women.
Seduction techniques should do the following 2 things for you:
1. They have to be simple and easy to use.
2. They have to be AUTHENTIC.
We really do want to please women – and ourselves – by being the kind of confident man she wants. We all feel validation when a girl likes us back. It’s what we all want.
SEDUCE WOMEN TIP 1: Don’t try to be the clever ‘player’ guy.
Yeah, you know him. He’s the guy with the fake front that he always puts on with women. Sometimes with guys, too.
He ACTS confident, but you can tell that it’s just a thin mask because he’s trying so hard to look like he knows he’s cool and that he can get any woman he wants.
He practically wears a t-shirt that says: “Yeah, I seduce women, and they love it!”
I saw a guy like this at a party last week, and he had this five-o-clock shadow, the “hip” t-shirt, and that swagger that just makes you want to throw up.
Again, this is what is know as BRAVADO. It’s showing off, which screams out “I’m REALLY insecure! But if I’m if I’m loud enough, you won’t know the difference!”
But we do.
This is what you might have heard of as “selling the sizzle, not the steak.”
SEDUCE WOMEN TIP 2: Don’t be too “planned out.”
The kind of seduction techniques that feel best to girls are the ones where the conversation really feels like it’s happening in real-time.
This means that while you can memorize a FEW clever things to say, the best approach is not to try to memorize a lot of stuff, no matter how cool it might sound when you read it.
First of all because the second you feel ANY stress or anxiety, you’ll immediately go blank in your head. I’m sure you’ve had this happen enough to know what I mean.
Most guys go blank when they DON’T memorize something, so it seems to make sense that when you memorize a few things, you’ll conquer this problem.
But it doesn’t really work, does it?
In fact that leads to my second point, which is that if you memorize too much stuff to say, she’ll see when you start digging back into your head for clever lines or things to say.
Here’s my rule for memorizing. It’s so simple, you don’t even have to memorize my rule because it’s so damn simple!
SEDUCE WOMEN TIP 3: The secret to getting a woman attracted to you is being able to ask the right QUESTIONS.
We’re often told that we need to know the right answer for everything a woman says to get attraction started. If you know how to ANSWER her the right way, she’ll realize that she wants you, right?
First she tests you…
…and then you respond.
But that’s not really true, and it’s one of the big mistakes in pickup today.
Your job is to lead the conversation – all the time, not wait to react to the woman. If you just wait to give her clever responses, no matter how cool they are, it sends a hidden signal to her that you’re reacting to her.
Again, a woman knows when you’re reactive rather than PROactive. By learning a whole bunch of witty comebacks, you’re just setting yourself up to be the passive one in the interaction. You’ll be led around by your nose, until you make a mistake.
Women respond most to initiative.
The secret key to conversations that seduce women is to know how and WHEN to ask a woman questions to get into deep rapport with her.
Questions are the power tool of conversations.
The sad fact is that deep rapport is a skill that most guys never learn, and it’s the most powerful technique to seduce women you can possibly use.
Because, ultimately, the amount of trust she feels for you will ultimately determine whether you seduce her, or you get shot down yet again.
SEDUCE WOMEN TIP 4: Learn how to touch women correctly.
Once you get past all the “talk” and chit-chat (and even DURING it), a woman has to feel your physical presence. This is the element that will push her over the top into seduction.
You may hear this talked about as “kino” or “kinesthetics,” and it’s just another bit of pickup jargon that means project your confidence with your physical presence.
It’s the way you stand, the way you walk, and how you communicate underneath your words.
It’s how close you stand at the right – or wrong – time.
And once you get the hang of it (it’s super easy, man), you’ll know what I mean.
You know, there was a time I felt ashamed and completely trapped in my inability with women. I was weak and supplicating. I came on way too strong with the girls I dated, and I drove them all off.
The more women I dated, the more I scared away, and the sicker I felt inside.
I got desperate, man. Trapped in that sense of futility that I could never learn what it was that got women attracted to me.
There was even one woman I was on a date with that some people actually saw what I was doing and laughed at me from across a parking lot. I kid you not.
I felt like a complete loser. It was humiliating.
I’m pissed just talking about this, but it’s important for you to know.
I promised myself that would never happen again, to me or any other guy I could help.
I’ve created some home study courses that will get you past a lot of this pain and fear, and a LOT of the rejection.
Whether you want to talk about seducing women or attracting women, or learning seduction techniques versus learning attraction tactics, it’s all the same thing.
Learning how to be the man you want to be to get the girl you want.
You can learn the skills of “seduction” or attraction – or whatever you want to call it. And never feel that frustration again…
If you want to seduce a woman you always need to keep in mind that eventually it is her DECISION. She must form a thought that tells her „I want! I will let it happen.“ If you give too much by telling her how you feel about her or giving too much attention, you kill the fire and she will feel no attraction to you.