14 Top Text Your Ex Back Messages
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- Gently: Keep it light and simple. Now’s not the time to dredge up any emotions.
- Establish: This step is all about initiating contact and setting up the foundation for future work. In other words, don’t start asking your ex to meet up or talk. In fact, don’t even bring up your past relationship.
- Affirmative: Always send positive texts. The goal here is to get rid of the negativity and start over. You can’t do this if you’re sending negative messages filled with anger or blame.
- Rapport: Inspire conversation. Don’t just send meaningless texts, or worse, bombard your ex with messages. Send him messages that he can respond to.
Don’t ask him to get together. And remember, this is not a booty call, and you won’t be able to fix your relationship with just these initial texts. Ladies, you’re setting up the groundwork for a stronger, better relationship with these texts.
Reference an Inside Joke Your Ex Will Understand
If it’s been 1-2 weeks (or more) since you last spoke with your ex girlfriend, this is a good way to kick-start a conversation again. This text is a simple, short, and upbeat text that references some sort of shared inside joke or common interest.
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Ask Your Ex Girlfriend to Recall Something
Again, this is just a quick simple text message that can help start a conversation and potentially remind your ex girlfriend of a pleasant memory the two of you shared.
Suggest Something That Your Ex Would Like
This text message has two purposes: to start a conversation and to show that you still remember certain things about your ex girlfriend and her personality.
These are a few of my favorite texts for re-establishing the lines of communication with your ex…
7.”Hey there, I just noticed that a new season of ‘The Amazing Race’ TV show starts Monday night… thought you’d like to know because I remember how much you love that show!!”
8.”Hi! Just wanted to send you a quick text because I noticed that the ‘Foo Fighters’ were coming to town next week. I know you’re a huge fan, hope you were able to get tickets!”
9.”Hey there, hope all is well… just wondering if you remember the name of that great Vietnamese restaurant we went to for your sister’s birthday? I want to take a friend there and can’t recall the name.”
10.”Hi, how are things? Sorry to bug you, just wanted to ask if you happen to have the name of that mechanic your uncle recommended? My car is dying!”
All of the above examples are non-threatening, light-hearted, and likely to generate a response from your ex. They’ll also all do the one thing you want most: planting thoughts of you in your ex’s mind.
Good Reminder Text
11.“Hey. Just was watching the Dallas Stars play the Vancouver Canucks tonight and your favourite player scored a goal! Made me think about how fun watching those games were!”
12.“Hey, Matthew Good Band is playing at the McPherson Playhouse next month! Thought you’d like to know because I remember how much you loved them! =D”
Evoke a really big emotional response from your ex
Here are a couple examples:
13.“Remember how good it felt when we saved that little cat from that tree? I just remembered how good that was holding your hand after we saved her. Hope all is well with you.”
14.“I just remembered that time we were stuck in that rain storm at our parent’s place, home alone… and how great it felt holding you in my arms in front of that fireplace. Hope things are great.”